Country: Belgium
Province: Flemish Brabant (BE)
Location: BE - Holsbeek
Therapist for: Men, Women
Therapy form: Sacred Sexuality, Sexual healing, Tantra massage (lingam), Tantra massage (yoni)

About me

Tantra massage FrederikeI am mother of a daughter and a son. My son is from the Philippines and was adopted. I enjoyed motherhood, but I was also searching and felt that my career as a physiotherapist did not give me the satisfaction I was looking for.

Until after my divorce I came into contact with the tantric vision. During that period I healed my own injuries in the field of intimacy and sexuality and after many years of bodywork (dance, yoga, mindfulness, massage, coaching, etc.) I started training in tantric work. It was and is an exciting path that inspires me in terms of awareness in myself and in relationships.
I live in good communication with my ex-partner, he has built a house in a corner of the large garden so that we can develop our own lives independently while taking care of the children.

I practice my work with passion. I am fascinated to go from the body to the deeper layers in order to facilitate processes of change in people. I love nature and can intensely enjoy just going with the flow of life without having to do things. These 2 poles inspire my life, the challenge is to find a good balance and that is what keeps me busy every day.

Take care of your body, your spirit, free yourself from what burdens you and connect from your heart, that is what I would like to pass on so that you as a human being come closer and closer to your essence.
I would like to welcome you to my cozy attic with a view of the fields and the woods. A wonderful place to completely sink into the here and now.

Course & rates

Tantric massage for women and men

With loving touches I invite you to completely sink into your body and to receive the massage from your heart in full surrender.
My tantric massages are tailored to what you need, intuitively and with the necessary knowledge.

I am inspired by what I see happening with you, by the music and the different tantric massage styles that I master.
These sessions are like a dance in which you are taken along in a loving, energetic and at the same time relaxing way. This dance becomes a part of you because it is absorbed by your body cells and can still vibrate for days after. It makes you more relaxed, more energetic, more flowing, more sensitive and sensitive, more loving.

A yoni/lingham massage can be part of the session. We are not pursuing a goal here. You are invited to learn to let go of your desire, leaving your mind free and open and allowing you to fully enjoy what is ahead. In that way it allows you to go into the experience, meet your whole body, increase your sensitivity and make every cell vibrate.
Injuries can surface or you can be touched by the softness you receive. By relaxing in this, this session can be a healing experience for you.


I work on a futon and if you wish I will be present naked from person to person.

I am the giver and you are the receiver. This is a clear agreement that creates a bed of safety and trust for you and for me.

You will be warmly welcomed with a chat beforehand. Then we get ready for the session. This starts with expressing your desires and limits, followed by a preparation and a ritual through which I first bring you in contact with yourself, your body with a meditation.

I would like to get to know you in advance by means of a telephone contact. During this conversation you are welcome with your questions, your wishes, your background and I can give you even more clarity about the way I work.

I can't offer you a shower, but I'll take care of everything necessary to freshen up after the massage. I therefore expect you to come to the session in good hygiene.


  • 1,5h: 190 euro
  • 2h: 225 euro
  • 3h: 300 euro

Allow an hour extra for a conversation before and after, preparation and ritual.

Sacred Sexuality

Do you also have the desire to live your full potential and to free yourself from emotional blockages so that you can open yourself completely to what life has to offer? This tantric-shamanic massage session is for women and men who long for more energy and joie de vivre, creativity and a deeper connection with themselves and with others.
We work with the healing power of sexual energy and you are invited to open your heart to universal love. This brings you into a higher vibrational field and you make more contact with your soul mission.

We start by releasing your expressive power through movement, breath and voice. This will wake up your body for the session that will follow.
Through the different ways of touch, use of voice and energetic work, I guide you in opening your gates so that you gain access to your cosmic life energy in connection with your earthly fire.

During this journey, feelings of shame and guilt, taboos and limiting beliefs can prevent you from going with the flow. By giving expression to these feelings and letting yourself be carried away in the experience, you can liberate yourself and open yourself to the higher dimensions of light and love. This allows ecstasy and possibly new insights to reveal themselves to you.

When you are ready, this session can be expanded with de-armouring techniques in the pelvic area. Traumas are often hidden in these zones that have their origin both individually and collectively and which cause tension. This hinders our vital sexual flow. By approaching these points with love and attention, you can slowly bring relaxation to this area and heal your past. Sometimes this is accompanied by images and/or insights that can help you with that.
After a de-armouring session you will feel more spacious and free in your pelvic area.
After the integration time, we end with a conversation.


  • 1,5h: 190 euro
  • 2h: 225 euro
  • 3h: 300 euro

Allow an hour extra for a conversation before and after, preparation and ritual.

Prana flow massage

This massage is Ayurvedic inspired, it works on the prana, i.e. your life energy. I look at what you need so that you get a massage tailored to your needs with a healing and self-healing effect.

The marma points can be taken along. By working on these points, blockages can be removed, so that the energy flows again and the body can relax immediately.

If stress determines your life, you can combine this session with a coaching session.

This massage helps with:
Stress, burn-out, fatigue, insomnia, headache, too little energy, neck and back complaints...


  • 1,5h: 120 euro
  • 2h: 150 euro

Conversation before and after the massage is not included in time. Allow around half an hour.

Healing Intimacy And Sexuality / Sexual Bodywork

From birth, we need gentle touch to feel recognized and loved in our life energy. If this is not done sufficiently or in a harmful way both in childhood and in later relationships, it affects our general well-being as well as our healthy sexual development.
Fortunately, it is possible to experience what you have not received and integrate it into your body so that your sexual lifestream can unfold more harmoniously.

Your self-confidence may have been affected by past experiences and you notice that it is difficult to relax during sexual contact.
Or you want to further explore your own sexuality, experience what you like and don't like and experiment with learning to express your desires and limits.
In a safe environment and within your confines I will invite you to gently heal you at your own pace. I will invite you to make the connection with your heart and your body so that you can feel at home in your body again and find the way to more openness and freedom.

Possible themes:

  • A desire to explore your own sexuality
  • An early ejaculation
  • Erection problems
  • Orgasm problems
  • Sex addiction
  • Feelings of shame
  • Difficulties with intimate contact
  • Pain during sex
  • Abuse
  • ...

Which tools?

I work with slow and soft touch, massage techniques, de-armouring in the pelvic area (i.e. a technique to relax and open), developing self-love, mindful bodywork, body scan, breath, movement and voice, relaxation and awareness exercises, Wheel of Consent (i.e. a method to learn to clearly indicate where your limits and desires lie),....


  • Intake interview: 50 euro/h
  • Sessions: 85 euro/h

Healing your inner child: the healing triangle

Relationships are difficult for you. You find yourself constantly bumping into themes in which you exhibit behavior in which you are restless, blocked, demanding, manipulative, dominant, avoidant, needy or self-sabotaging. There is a good chance that the cause can be found in your childhood and youth in relationship with your father and mother.

With the healing triangle we make a father-mother-child arrangement and we put down the “good enough father and mother”. We offer you a safe space bed in which you can investigate and ask what you need.

We facilitate you through your process. In this way old emotional imprints are replaced by new corrective emotional imprints allowing you to function more freely emotionally and sexually.

What do these sessions bring you: more inner peace and more freedom, space and comfort in your love relationships.

I do these healing triangle sessions together with my partner Staf Van Pelt. He is a psychologist-psychotherapist. In these sessions we are inspired by “Sexual Grounding Therapy”.


Through a telephone contact I would like to listen to your question so that we can see what we can do for you. This session can last 2 to 3 hours.


130 euro/hour

Sessions for couples and for partners in conventional and non-conventional relationships

In these sessions we work on the connection between you as partners, whatever type of relationship structure you have: mono-amorous (ie a couple) or poly-amorous (eg open relationships). Sometimes you feel that the fine connection with your lover has been lost, you become irritable towards each other, you start to doubt yourself, you have unfulfilled desires or expectations or the judgments are soon ready.

You may want to explore your love and sexuality a little more and want inspiration and help.

In a preparatory conversation we go over where things are stuck between you, where the love flow falters and which path you wish to take. From a professional tantric vision I want to guide you through your process and if necessary I can bring my experience in non-conventional relationships into the sessions.

Which tools can be discussed?

Conversation, self-examination and self-questioning, wheel of consent (communication tool to learn to feel and express desires and boundaries), awareness exercises, drawing up a renewed love contract, (sexual) bodywork, massage)


  • Intake interview: 80 euro
  • Sessions: 100 euro/hour, with a minimum of 1.5 hours

Dance coaching

You are welcome with your questions about making contact with your body, feeling and your emotions, letting go, liberating, your passion fire, inner strength, taking space, setting boundaries, self-confidence...

Because words often fall short, a body-oriented approach can provide more clarity in your theme. You are brought into contact with what lives in your body. With movement and dance we look for your essence.

After an introductory talk I will invite you to sink into your body. With specific assignments that develop from your dance, I help you further in your process. In this way you become aware of things that may have been unconscious before. We translate your experience into everyday life. In this way you get concrete tools that help you further and bring you closer to a freer and lighter life.
You are welcome even if you have never danced before.


  • Intake: 60 euro/hour
  • Sessions: 150 euro/2h

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